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the seasons may change, but so will i...
Jan 19, 2024

the seasons may change, but so will i...

i'm restructuring my offerings & "rebranding"

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
astrologyastrology
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i’m dreaming of better futures
Oct 22, 2023

i’m dreaming of better futures

while honouring the pain of the past & present

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
intimacyintimacy
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a person of liminal experience/space
Aug 13, 2023

a person of liminal experience/space

what do i call them? culito? fwb? person i'm seeing? tell me!

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
shades of griefshades of grief
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shades of blue
Jul 26, 2023

shades of blue

from the archives, revisited

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
intimacyintimacy
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love is liberation
Jul 14, 2023

love is liberation

even with the sense of impending loss, love anyway.

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
astrologyastrology
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intimacy & time 🕰️
Jul 03, 2023

intimacy & time 🕰️

the intersection of both as a form of relational healing

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
intimacyintimacy
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my brain is a poop head
May 19, 2023

my brain is a poop head

the vibes are very much not chill, bro

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
intimacyintimacy
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a body mythology: i am not my diagnoses
May 09, 2023

a body mythology: i am not my diagnoses

meditations on chronic illness + trauma

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
intimacyintimacy
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trainspotting
Apr 14, 2023

trainspotting

musings and ramblings as I traverse two states

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
relationalrelational
impactful & intentional intimacy
Mar 31, 2023

impactful & intentional intimacy

how the fuck do i build these meaningful relationships amidst a late stage capitalist hellscape?

Christa Lei
Christa Lei
intimacyintimacy
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intimacy in verse
Mar 16, 2023

intimacy in verse

sometimes i don't want to produce a fully-edited and perfected essay, so now you get the poetic little stupid thoughts in my head as vignettes

astrologyastrology
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a life lesson from a libra (and their aries partner)
Feb 01, 2023

a life lesson from a libra (and their aries partner)

it’s okay to take up space, just don’t dim yourself for others

a publication from a relational lens about the life we live amongst the people, things and spirits we love that lead us to a good death.

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a publication from a relational lens about the life we live amongst the people, things and spirits we love that lead us to a good death.

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